Don't Take Advice From Someone You Wouldn't Trade Places With

If you don't want their life, ignore 🛑 their advice. Period.

Some people truly understand the value of NOT giving unsolicited advice. Unfortunately, common sense is a rare commodity nowadays.

Many people are eager to share their opinion, but wisdom is tested, proven, and applied knowledge that leads to a desired outcome.

With all due respect, seek guidance from those with proven results. 🎯

If you need 💰 financial advice, find someone whose finances are impeccable. For parenting, look for someone whose children are thriving— or at least someone who puts in their best effort, regardless of the outcome. (Read: Rezeki Tuhan yang tulis). 

The important thing is the effort, not just settling for the bare minimum: asal boleh, asal besar, asal makan, asal hidup, asal dah buat. Mana improvement nya? 

Seriously, sis? Are you sure you are in the place to judge or even to suggest anything? When your kids are raised together with your parents, your money is provided by your husband, and when you're sakit pening or not working, the bills, the food, the house, the car are still being paid for by others, anak orang lain jagakan. Heh— 🤨

That’s not "concern" or "care", that’s just plain KEPOH.

Tapi tulah, you can't fully blame them if they were raised in a different environment. They just don't have that reference point or tak ada contoh yang baik. Nak buat macam mana kan?

P/S: 😩 Mula-mula okay, lama-lama rasa menyampah.